// Instagram is F*cking Up My Relationship!

by Natalise on April 24th, 2012

Dear Natalise,

I know this may come off really immature, but I'm fighting over INSTAGRAM with my BF. It makes me angry just thinking about it! He's been liking and commenting on pics of these girls (from I don't even know where). They are all girls who are posing in some "sexy" way. That's fine, but it makes me sick. I ask him who all these girls are, and he responds by calling me insecure and saying that it's no big deal and that I should lighten up. He says some are facebook friends or just random people he knows. Am I being overly jealous?

Instagram Hater
Dear Instagram Hater,

You're funny. Ok, maybe you are a bit insecure. But maybe, he's also just disrespectful. Either way, if you felt good in your relationship, him liking these random girls' pictures wouldn't bother you. You might even go ahead and say, "Yeah, she's hot!" (too). Do you understand what I'm saying?

Let's get to the root of the problem. What's going on in your relationship? Do you not trust him? Does he not respect you? Does he flirt with other women outside of your relationship? Does he make you feel like you're the only one?

That being said, in a healthy relationship, 1) your boyfriend shouldn't be liking pictures of girls unless they are his friends, and he finds them endearing (i.e. a random girl in a bikini is not endearing), and 2) if he does comment/like these kinds of pictures and you are bothered, when you tell him how you feel, he should respond like, "I'm sorry. I didn't mean anything by it, and I will stop." Any other excuse is lame and unacceptable. If he's going to fight with you on something as petty as this, he has some issues and doesn't really want to be your boyfriend (at least right now). If this is the case (which I hope it's not), you need to kick him to the curb.

xoxo,
Natalise


p.s. YOUR SONG ASSIGNMENT - Guilty pleasure - Listen to One Direction's "What Makes You Beautiful." This is what your boyfriend SHOULD be saying. Cheesy, but true. Feel me?



Posted in Cheating, Fighting, Flirtation, Jealousy, Long-Term Relationships, Love & Relationships, Miscellaneous, Online Dating, Trust    Tagged with Instagram is f*cking up my relationship, Jealousy, Fighting, online flirtation, instagram likes


94 Comments

Mai - April 24th, 2012 at 12:43 PM
Nice Answer :)
Barbara - August 1st, 2012 at 11:40 AM
My boyfriend does the same thing to me. I confronted him about it and his excuses were "I don't even know why I follow them", "I follow random people all the time", "everyone I follow is famous or I know, they aren't just random girls." Well all the "famous" girls he follows are slutty music video girls which I have never seen or heard of so they aren't famous to me they're just random..
t - August 16th, 2013 at 8:47 PM
My boyfriend constantly says, so hot! And comments like that in random instagram chicks pictures. About 9 months ago we had a break up for about a month and when we got back together I saw actual text messages from one of the girls he had met on there. He won't let me follow him on instagram or Facebook. We have had many fights over this. We live together and have been together for almost two years. I tell him it upsets me when I'm on onstage and every once in a while I see his comments. I wonder if he is talking to them.more. when I confront him he calls me a stalker and insequire. He says he us allowed to have friends and comment anything he wants. This really hurts me. In general our relationship is really good but I can't stand it that he won't add me on instagram or Facebook and won't even post pictures of us. Its like he needs the attention of these women. I know they think he is single. He never acts on anything and says he loves.me. but if he loves me why does he keep making these comments?
Heather - August 22nd, 2013 at 8:20 PM
That's unacceptable. You guys live together and he acts single and won't let you follow him/add him ?! You are a life long partner and Instagram is a useless social site. He is choosing Instagram over you... You need to address it. My boyfriend is obsessed with Instagram but I told him he can like anything he wants dont comment on girls pictures and he hasn't. Your boyfriend of 2 years shouldn't want attention from other girls, maybe you need to spice things up or something.
cherry - March 18th, 2014 at 2:31 AM
my boyfriend does the same thing I wish Instagram will go to hell I hate all the slutty girls no girls have class now a days every girl on Instagram in my opinion is a whore
Al - April 3rd, 2015 at 11:37 AM
LOL maybe not entirely true but totally understand where you come from and feel the same way
Ellianna - March 26th, 2014 at 9:08 PM
Woah . He's not worth your time. Every girl is insecure, but that is just disrespectful. I suggest breaking up with him. And tell him face-to-face why. But, quick tip(; if you want something, have him get it for you BEFORE you break up. Good luck , I hope he changes but if he doesn't, take my advice. You're too special to be treated that way (:
Mel - June 26th, 2014 at 11:27 PM
dump his douchey ass!!!! I can't actually believe this. Sorry you say your relationship is really good other than this but this is huuuge! You should stop wasting your time on hom and dump him so you can find a real man who treats you right, someone who tells the world he loves you!
Beverly - June 30th, 2014 at 4:03 AM
this is currently my problem right now, my boyfriend got mad at me for telling him to stop and he said that they were just "likes and comments" he doesn't understand that it really has affected me ._.
he even did this when I had no way to talk to him, I was currently moving into a new house and when I got my internet hooked up I saw the heart shaped and blushy emojis on a picture of this girl in a bikini, then I checked her other pictures and she responded with the monkey that covers their eyes, they looked more of a couple then we did!!! she even had uploaded a picture of him from snapchat, idek what to do anymore
i'm just gonna see how it all plays out :/
Anonymous - August 7th, 2012 at 5:29 AM
What's wrong with a guy just being a guy? Do you really think these Instagram chicks are really gonna be so impressed by your boyfriend's "likes" and crappy comments that they'll look him up and fuck him? I doubt you're dating Tatum Channing or Ryan Gosling or whoever. It's not a big deal; just like when guys watch porn and jerk off. You're not jealous, you're insecure and ENVIOUS of those other chicks. Now, go to the gym and do something about being more attractive. Best wishes.
Tina - August 26th, 2012 at 5:32 PM
Maybe guys should try not to do their girlfriends what they wouldn't like them to do to them, don't you think? Would you like your girlfriend to post pictures of herself and get others' guy attention and look for that on a daily basis if not for flirting just for an ego boost? Would you? Would you like her to vote and comment daily on other guys' pics who could be showing their chest, legs, etc? You know what, I sure hope that all the guys who do these kind of things even if your girlfriend tells you it hurts her feelings and it's distracting you from the relationship, to get plenty of similar treatment from life back! Enjoy that!
Bianca - November 20th, 2013 at 5:49 PM
Thank you Tina! You've made my day. Instagram will be getting several cute selfies in the days ahead ;)
Tim - March 18th, 2014 at 3:44 AM
Ok I understand where your coming from but the fact remands "guys" are not the only people that go on IG or FB and like comments or pictures of guys. I have yet to know a girl or of a girl that doesn't follow a guy they don't know. There a reason why Channing Tatum has more than 15 or more different IG accounts with all of them having from the thousands reaching over millions of followers, I doubt those are all guys following him. Look "girls" this generation of thinking the way you do is getting old and tired. Before women start arguing and pointing fingers I think you should read this link I'm about to put on her written by a women because it's not just men tired of your BS. http://www.returnofkings.com/30402/most-women-dont-deserve-a-good-man read that then reply..
amber - December 2nd, 2015 at 11:48 AM
Hi tim,well you dont know me but i can tell you right now that i am 1 gurl whi never has commented or liked a guys page that i dont know,i could also tell u that EVERY SINGLR PERSON OF MY FACEBOOK PAGR OIS MY FAMILU AND FAMILY IS ONLY ONES I Wnt to like and comment on
jessica - September 11th, 2014 at 1:31 PM
Omggg!! Your so right dude i feel the same exact way!
My dude made all these fake accounts,like yahoo,he made a second instagram page and blocked me and he literally had all these random chicks like porn stars and just reg girls!
Like uhh pissed me off,its the most disrespectful thing ever!
& He treats me like im the one being shady like niggggaah really!!
Ohhh he says hes ready to settle down but hes being a hypocrite!
Im giving him so many chances because he "says" he loves me?

gabbi hughes - January 17th, 2015 at 2:10 PM
Thats just what I did to my bf, posted sexy pics on fb to get same attention he gives to other girls haha
angelic - December 21st, 2012 at 11:39 AM
Honestly ladies, THIS WAS THE BEST ANSWER!! who ever you are you need to make a blog for woman, because you are definitely on point with it! Kudos to you!
Looking Down - September 28th, 2013 at 11:59 AM
You're a complete idiot and obviously a guy. Let me guess, you're single?
So what now - February 13th, 2014 at 1:42 AM
She's obviously one of the insta hoes
dea - March 27th, 2016 at 1:04 PM
Smart girls don't date weak guys. They date guys that know what girl to chose, and respect her, not idiots. It's not about envy, because virtually any girl can take her clothes of, create an instagram account and have lots of attention. Some girls don't need that, they have other goals, other interests. Who wants the guy that "likes" weak girls all the time? It's embarassing. We all look for alpha males, and alpha males look for smart women, not the instagram typical girl.

Besides, it's well known that most of this guys are addicted or become addicted to internet nudes, and one of the consequences if the growing inability to get excited to real girls, so many of them will be worthless in bed.
shy - August 15th, 2016 at 5:31 PM
Haha true %uD83D%uDE02
celeste - October 9th, 2017 at 3:16 PM
EXPLAINS WHY YOU CHOSE TO POST ANONYMOUSLY. MAYBE YOU ARE JUST INSECURE. TRY POSTING SHOWING YOUR ACTUAL INDENTITY. best wishes.
Tina - August 26th, 2012 at 5:24 PM
I hope you and your boyfriend succeded to find harmony again, Natalise. I hope you won't mind I use your post to say a few things I feel about Instagram...I feel the damage it will make to relationships is bigger than facebook could do...Very little users have it private or communicate with friends, work colleagues when some kind of respect is maintained...It is sad to see so many superficial people, sooo self centred, who wake up and spend their day shouting me, me, me! Women wear something nice and have their partner totally seduced but that's not enough anymore, they need to put pictures on line, get some strangers' attention and get them to vote and comment. Some kind of ego flirting if not open flirting establishes with all that daily updating and following that end up distracting one from his/her relationship, his/her true partner and ruin things. Our partner deserves most of our attention and we should not let ourselves getting enganged in this instagram addiction if we care about the trust and happiness of our relationship. It shouldn't be about what a successful picture some desperate single females could take of themselves before the shower or after the shower, when they've just done their nails or bought new shoes or a new dress, etc. but about remembering to make your partner feel loved every day. While a guy could be voting and commenting for a pathetic attention seeker that needs to make herself available on line, he could be ruining his girlfriend's confidence little by little...
Justpassingthrough - May 30th, 2014 at 6:27 AM
"While a guy could be voting and commenting for a pathetic attention seeker that needs to make herself available on line, he could be ruining his girlfriend's confidence little by little..."
You are so right on this!
Candace - October 4th, 2012 at 11:09 PM
You are not crazy for feeling like this. Period. He is being disrespectful to you. Would he like it if you were ' liking' hot guys? No. Do not take his crap. He knows it is wrong and is trying to turn it around on you. If you didn't feel insecure about this you would be crazy. He is, on top of disrespecting and embarrassing you he is controlling you. This behavior is the beginning of possibly much worse behavior. The only thing you can do is stay true to yourself. You have integrity and he clearly does not. Instigram should not even be a topic between people who are in love. Ditch him and find a sweet mature man who would never do that to you. If he does not think he's doing anything wrong, you can not change him no matter how much you beg plead, argue or whine. He will/ can only change when he wants to. If he does this for public to see....what is he doing when no one is looking??? If you stay with him, be quiet and keep tabs on him. This is not a stand up honest person. Mark my words. Good luck
Josephine - November 1st, 2012 at 8:05 AM
Couldn't agree more!
arlene - December 6th, 2012 at 11:43 AM
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Lindsey - March 18th, 2013 at 11:46 PM
Right on!!!
K - October 6th, 2012 at 1:38 PM
Sadly, yet relieved that my relationship is over, this happened to me. My ex whom I thought was deeply in love with me had an addiction with Instagram and hide it from me for 5 weeks!! Not to mention from the beginning of those 5 weeks was when the problems started! He would act distant, but now he would hide his phone and lock it. We took a break, he claimed that was too needy...I took the blame and have him space..so he kept coming around. Until one day he said we should start all over from the beginning, saying he loves me. The next day I opened a fake Instagram account, he followed me instantly with a hot pic of a girl. I viewed every comment he left, flirting asking for pics through text, I was disgusted! BTW, I'm a very attractive woman and get attention everywhere I go, and I'm very secure with myself. But when I saw this, I made sure he was going to get an earful from me, never had I disrespected him.Never! I took screen shots of comments he left..when I confronted him, he said he did it out of anger cause I had a FB account, which he knew about before so nothing made sense! He tried and tried to justify his actions, but no way! Not with me! I love myself more than to be with a pervert loser that showed his true colors. He lost the best thing that ever came into his life. I know this because one day, he'll regret a simple stupid mistake, and he has to feel lonely cause I won't be there. He'll have the comfort of his screen in his face all he wants, and he chose that! So, with that said..we as woman are worth more than any BS social network, it's ridiculous that its come to this at this day. Don't let anyone show disrespect and control you into thinking that its ok. It's not! I'm better off single, happy with enjoying TRUE life..not some fake media. That is simple pathetic...thanks
Tyna - August 1st, 2013 at 12:55 AM
Perfectly said . Thank you so much !
Stephanie - October 15th, 2014 at 9:17 AM
Best answer ! Bravo
OldiesGyrl - October 15th, 2012 at 8:40 PM
It isn't Instagram (or social networking as as whole) itself, it's those who choose to utilize it in a certain manner. And it isn't so much a matter of insecurity as it is someone who is a serial "liker" and contributes whenever he or she comes across someone who they think is attractive. What rhyme or reason would a significant other have to go around looking at a mass amount of profiles or photos of other women/men though? Personally, I feel that it's shady as well as disrespectful.

For instance, a guy who I know of is in a new relationship. He claims that he's happy, in love, and he even went as far as to send love as well as respect to all of his ex-girlfriends from childhood to now. The first shady point is that he's keeping his girlfriend a secret. Why? I have no idea, but I find it odd. And the second shady point is that he "likes" and comments on sexy photos of other women aside from the photos he "likes" of his girlfriend. He actually associates with the women, and many of them live in the same state. Just a month ago, he told one of the women that he misses her and he has "liked" many of the photos of her in which she's dolled up in. She isn't a relative nor is she a close friend. Also, she lives all the way in Michigan; which is quite a distance from L.A. which is where he resides. Very strange considering that just a week ago while hanging out at the aquarium with his girlfriend, he suddenly had this epiphany that he's in love with her, and they're meant to be. It's weird and sketchy and it gives me the feeling that he's playing a game as well being sneaky.

Overall, you have a right to question it because I doubt he would be understanding if you were to go around "liking" and/or commenting on photos of other guys. I simply don't believe that those who contribute to other people's photos in a flirtatious manner are doing so out of innocence, and without any lustful thoughts or intentions.


Cynthia - October 24th, 2012 at 6:04 AM
Wow I love to hear about a strong woman!! I feel like u wrote this comment for me! My 42 year old husband jus bought a new car! Right away he joined instagram! I see all these sluts liking the pics!! This situation is all new! I told my husband i wasn't sure how I felt about instagram and i didnt even think it was apropriate for his age!! Because he knows I've checked his acct he does not like or follow any sluts yet but i know its just a matter of time when Im not paying attention he will! He doesnt like or follow but I know for a fact he loves to look at all the tits and ass! Im very pretty and i take care of my body so im not insecure. I jus find it so disrespectful and hes im jealous and crazy! I cant believe im daying this but im actually ready to separate from my husband so he can have all the instagram he wants! Im just so confused and frustrated! If someone loves u then why would they continue to do something that bothers you..
Victoria - November 28th, 2012 at 6:23 PM
My boyfriend looks up old women he used to associate with that i know of.. I confront him and he says its out of curiosity but he wants to get upset at my ex boyfriends following me on Instagram liking all my pictures. It is deff not fair... I would like to believe our love is stronger than Instagram.. and what comes with it.. and its hurtful to even have to be putting it into contex and having to come online and look for someone to tell me I'm not crazy for being upset..
Lola - December 2nd, 2012 at 4:51 AM
So glad to know I'm not the only one who has had problems with Instagram. My now ex bf used to follow slutty models who reveal everything and I thought it was very hurtful and disrespectful bc it made me feel unattractive. Reason was bc he wasn't having sex with me much so to find that he's following slutty girls made me insecure. Of course he'd make up some bs excuse but he's a selfish guy and has other intentions. He would instagram everything and I felt it was slowly taking over our relationship and it got very annoying. His life revolved around moments to instagram. I would always complain about him instagramming bc it made me feel so insignificant that he wouldn't post pictures of us going out but he'd post everything he does with his friends. I guess it all depends on how ppl use instagram. Some know how to make their girlfriends feel important and some jut don't care. He made me feel like I wasn't included in his life. Trust is probably a good reason why we all feel this way. But shouldn't a good bf worry about making his gf feel important rather showing ppl his every move in life when they really don't care.
Kim - December 5th, 2012 at 6:00 AM
Well, he ended up choosing Instagram over me...How ridiculous this is! He came back into my life eight years later saying that he could never forget me, convinced me to start a long distance relationship offered me a first fantastic year and then he discovered Instagram...His pictures have always been decent and I believe that when he joined the site his main interest was photography. Obviously there are also decent and talented people who use Instagram, but the general vibration is so low that many people who start ok, end up posting provoking pictures of themselves or developing a flirting addiction and ruining their relationships.

I have seen how his activity changed day by day and he got more and more addicted to the site and to online flirting. He was encouraged of course by the many desperate females and it seems that this kind of pathetic attention works for him. I discovered that the wonderful man I thought he was is actually an attention seeker who is even stalking teenagers that should be still doing their homework and have a healthy fun with their friends and not %u2018sell%u2019 their image on line every day. What should have been a photography site has become for many an opportunity to develop exhibitionist tendencies and immoral behavior. But then 'igers' are so 'friendly', 'tolerant' and 'supportive'! They vote and comment on revealing pictures, encourage each other's weaknesses and vices and the list of friends of many ends up looking more like a mental harem! I thought childhood was the age when we discovered our 'amazing bodies' and then we moved onto discovering the world around us. It's all so fake, so cheap, many flirt with several people at the time and they all pretend so well it's real, nice and valuable that it becomes surrealistic!

I first thought it was a just a phase, that he would reflect at some point and control, change his behavior, but his online addiction to flirting has become stronger and stronger. One of his flirts proved to be a travesty later, some lovely 'ladies' who like to post pictures of their body parts ended up admitting they were married and they stopped hiding they had children, others keep maintaining their fake image or continue flirting while they mention their husband and family every now and then...What a world!...So many people sharing the same weaknesses, I need to feel important, I wish I was popular, I need to run away of my life and my real self, screaming for attention, proving that they have no real values to guide them when interacting with other people, responding so well to these low influences, lying to their real partners and to themselves, ruining real relationships for some screen fantasies obsessed with their body parts.

I was disappointed but I am moving on. There is nothing I can do against his shallow, superficial way of being and constant need of attention from more the better. Anyway I do have a wish for my ex, if he doesn't ruin all this relationships and reputation with this open online flirting, which might very well happen if he continues, I wish him to meet someone with a crazy husband one day or someone who is a total psychopath herself, maybe then he'll learn to exercise some kind of control over his online flirting addiction, begin to do some serious reflection and remember the good decent values that so many people have forgotten. No, I don%u2019t really wish this for him, but he deserves a lesson from life.

And to those vicious %u2018igers%u2019 that so desperately need to show to everybody their nails, legs, breasts, bikini, underwear, etc., I%u2019d like to remind them that it%u2019s time to get some control over their exhibitionist tendencies. It%u2019s so much healthier and valuable to share your intimacy with your loved ones! And learn to be responsible when sharing something with the world, we all influence each other at some level. Trying to provoke any man/woman available on line, might reinforce someone%u2019s addiction to online flirting, ruin a few relationships here and there, but if you couldn%u2019t care less because you need your daily ego boost, maybe when your energy called %u2018karma%u2019 will come back to you, you%u2019ll see, feel and understand better.
Natalise - December 5th, 2012 at 1:48 PM
Hey Kim,
I'm sorry to hear about your relationship. It sounds like he is just insecure and needs time to grow up. But like you said, you don't REALLY wish all those bad things on him. The important thing now is to keep your head high and move forward. Knowing who you are and being confident about that will attract the kind of guy you really want... someone who doesn't need exterior validation of who he is...
xo,
Natalise
Kim - December 5th, 2012 at 4:06 PM
Thank you, dear Natalise for your kind and wise reply and for the opportunity to find some relief on your site. Like always you offer an interesting reading and excellent advice! All the best to you, Kim.
Frank - January 31st, 2013 at 1:05 AM
Stop being fagets. Instagrams just a app. Grow up
jmac - November 29th, 2013 at 11:26 PM
Best comment ever
Grow up for all the insecure women
dg - February 11th, 2013 at 12:25 AM
My guy thinks I'm crazy and call me insecure for bitching about random chicks he likes. His excuse is that there pictures of guys and tattoo artists he follows. He is liking the tats on them its not like he knows them! That's bull crap to me and I know I'm not crazy and try to explain to him that any girl would feel this way if their bf showed his likings public. Its one thing to find other women attractive, but when everyone on the network can see what your liking makes it worse. It makes me look like an idiot. And the worst part about it is there's not one picture of me on his instagram.
D - March 1st, 2013 at 8:25 PM
Guys who say it is a harmless thing but who are busy posting everything in site even when it is supposed to be time they are spending with you...then reading through and responding to the comments....not having a conversation over what they are really experiencing in their lives at that moment....lame and immature. Maybe it's a phase and they will grow tired of this superficial relationship process...who knows? Should you wait through something like that? No. Go live your life....without him if necessary and then one day, it may dawn on him when he is actually looking for a warm body....hey, what happened?!!!
lauren - March 25th, 2013 at 9:25 AM
you have to take the good with the bad, my boyfriend will comment/like photos... Hell even give his number out on Instragram in comments? like wtf? hes told girls he was single and everything... which is so crazy because one of my ex's had txted my phone and hes smacked the shit out of me over it....We fight and we aruge over it... it still bothers me but now i have his FB and instagram pw... i mean it makes me feel better... but he explains to me that he is just insecure.. he likes to see that the women want him... it pisses me off even more though cause im beautiful as eff!!! if i had instagram and put up photos of my butt its get hundreds of likes too... i guess id rather him like instagram photos then to actually have sex with someone...

I have came to the conclusion i am not insecure over instragram... him liking instagram photos and chatting to girls is not an issue its normal male behavious... the issue is that We are in a relationship.. and i take it as advancing other women. liking the photos isnt the issue... the way it effects our relationship is the issue

If the man really loves you and wants you in his life, he will stop!! but you need to put your FOOT DOWN people will only do to you what you allow... lol ive even hacked his fb of course i found stuff... it makes me sick... but he was willing to stop, which it the most important part for me.. now we have eachother passwords... lets see how long this last...

If i catch the man doing "unorthodox" movements i am DONE!!! PEOPLE ARE NOT STUPID he knows what he was doing was wrong thats why he hid it.. gosh i could slap him... but love is forgiveness and understanding.. i understand he was being selfish, i forgive him because he asked me too.. and now to prevent it happeneing again we aint having any secrets in our relationship aka YOU CANT HAVE YOUR OWN FACEBOOK PW BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW HOW TO ACT!!!!!
Figgs - March 27th, 2013 at 12:50 AM
My girlfriend fought me over instagram because I was occasionally commenting on this one girl's semi-revealing photo's. She felt that I didn't give her that many compliments. Really, I just thought it was too cheesy to be telling her how sexy she is when she's my girl. And, when I do give her a compliment, she automatically looks for ways to negate it. So confusing!

I'm done with instagram now. I thought it was all in fun, but really if you comment on a girl's photos and your girlfriend sees it, it can hurt her feelings and ruin a relationship. For what, an application?!? So stupid. For what comment?

#triceps Damn! - I don't think this is flirty at all.

Guys will be guys, and I feel like all this social media and social networking sites serve as ways to make people feel unsatisfied and insecure. Either way, the positive thing is just having a way to connect with your friends and be informed. But if your girl is really into her phone, she will end up reading your comments and get hurt, simple as that. To risk a relationship we built in real life over an SNS application is ridiculous! All men beware...

LOOK BUT DO NOT LIKE!

COMMENT BUT DO NOT COMPLIMENT!


Rachel - May 26th, 2013 at 11:21 PM
I just wanted to say that I really appreciate your comment. I believe that relationships, in general, have limitations, obviously. But, every individual relationship has its own limitations, or 'rules'. For example, my boyfriend and I both appreciate beautiful things ( including people, male and female) and we are both comfortable expressing what we find attractive in each person. However, not everyone is like that! Something like that could really hurt someone's feelings. A close mutual friend of ours just broke up with his girlfriend because he was not comfortable with how open she was with who she found attractive (she was constantly commenting on the physical appearance of attractive men and women). It hurt his feelings and either she didn't understand, or she didn't respect him enough. My point is: every relationship is different. You have to set boundaries and continue to have good communication. I appreciate the level of maturity and communication you have in your relationship with your girlfriend. Reminds me of my own boyfriend who I appreciate very much. :)
ghost - April 29th, 2013 at 5:25 PM
I was dating a fellow recently who followed over 2050 scantily clad women, mostly in their teens on Instagram.
I mentioned it and he got defensive. I also have a hard time trusting someone who does this.
I understand why men do it, but I have a hard time dating someone that does this.
Denise - May 16th, 2013 at 8:47 PM
I need help!!!! My boyfriend had a Instagram and I would constantly check up on it because its strange how all he follows r GiRLS!!!!! And so he deleted because I constantly checked it but now he creted a new account and won't let me follow it and has it on private and I confronted him about it and of course he try's to play reverse psychology and say how I have Instagram and FB and he doesn't bother me, I told him that's cuz I choose not to ask about it. Anyways I'm just scared about nasty chicks that'll be having they friggen boobs all out and their asses...I fell like crap and insecure!!!!:( someone plz help. Email me!!!! Pinkluver917@gmail.com
Lorena - June 27th, 2013 at 3:09 PM
I completely agree with everyone's views. I just started a long distance relationship and recently took to looking at who he follows. He follows several porn actresses and girls posting scantily photos. There are some I have no issue with but those i do I added him to unfollow. He unfollowed some but added more. When I asked him to unfollow he focused on my admission of insecurity and said I shouldn't be bothered by who he follows. He said he didn't want to stop following those types of girls. He likes how they look but doesn't mean he doesn't love me. I feel it's disrespectful and hurtful. I've told him the latter but he doesn't want to change. I don't know what to do.
Anonymous 234 - July 22nd, 2013 at 8:52 PM
I am facing the same problem over here. My bf is a photographer. We're in long distance relationship as I am pursuing my studies overseas. My bf have been an active fb user before this. He used to like & comment on girls pictures sometimes which is really irritating & made me feel uncomfortable. After I confronted him about it, he started to reduce fb activity gradually which was really weird. But it turns out that he was introduced to instagram instead by his friends and had been having an account for 8 months without my knowledge. I finally found out few months back through fb link. When I confronted him, he said, it's nothing like fb, since only art lovers will be posting photos here. He asked me to join it too and follow him. Well I did join and I found out that he's somewhat addicted to it. Every time when I check the notifications, I always see him liking people's pictures but that wasn't the problem. He's checking it from time to time, every now & then. But he wouldn't bother to text me, call me up, chat with me or reply my messages. He's just too busy instagramming, either updating his own, or liking others pictures and commenting. Sometimes I will be waiting for a long time for his response but he wouldn't bother me at all. I used to wonder, are all these random people whom he's following is more important than I am and worth than our relationship ? And why does he need to be updated from time to time with whatever shit they are up to ? Who the hell cares what they wanna do ? Why would he want to waste his time with that stupid app ? For god sake, can he just turn it off completely and spend some quality time talking with me and show me some love that i deserved. But I was scared to tell in case he might get pissed off. Once I did told him about it and he claimed that he have to check it since he's a photographer and all the people he follows are either his friends, family or clients. He told me to grow up.And since instagram introduced private profiles, I couldn't view those pictures he likes. And I lost my peace. So started to follow those people he's following to keep tab on him so that I will get notified whenever he likes their private pics. I just can't stand this anymore. Is there anything else I can do ?
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Michelle - September 17th, 2013 at 3:59 PM
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. Earlier this year we kept getting into arguments so we decided we needed a break. A week into out break I found out I was pregnant, I was on birth control and we used condoms. It completely shocked both of us. Now I'm not religious but personally I wouldn't have an abortion. I'm 29 weeks pregnant and since we found out we decided to get back together and just currently moved back to my hometown, a different state than his, so I could be with my family through out my pregnancy. Since we got back together we rarely argue, we'll have disagreements but get over it within a few hours the same day. So yesterday I was on Instagram, which I rarely go on because my phones Internet sucks and found out that he was liking this girls pics. I clicked on her name and half of her pics were of nature and the other half were of herself partially or fully naked. I noticed he liked all her pics and commented on the ones that she was showing a lot of skin in. He used a lot of emojis and left compliments about her body parts. That really irritated me and I flipped. Since we currently live together I literally just walked out of our home and called a friend to pick me up. We ended up texting and I confronted him about it and all he said was that I was overreacting and that it meant nothing that it was just a random girl on ig. He doesn't understand why it bothers me even though I told him that it grosses me out that he was doing that while we are expecting a child. He didn't even say sorry or that he was going to stop doing it. I don't know what to do. If I wasn't expecting his child I would leave him there's no doubt about that. However we're having a baby and I feel stuck. I don't want to be with him if he's not going to change but I don't know if he will if he can't even understand why it's so upsetting.
Jeff - September 21st, 2013 at 5:46 AM
I'm sorry, but this whole thing is lame. I mean, yes, if women were saints, then they'd have a right to complain.. but you have a phone FULL OF GUYS giving y'all attention that is unnecessary and un warranted. Guys HAVE TO PUT UP WITH SHIT from y'all because "that's the way it is" ... so yea, maybe your bf like women in bikinins.. oh you don't like it? tough. Get another dude then. Cuz honestly, if everyone exposed themselves, y'all got a lot more to hide then we do. This is nit picking. Don't believe me? fine. Keep arguing over instagram; see how far that gets you. Lame as fuck.
Shelly - September 25th, 2013 at 10:23 AM
The ones who are really insecure in all this, are the guys who are doing this to you... They are so imature, that they have to give attention to other girls, just to get the same back.

And let's face it: Searching for other girls, following them and liking and commenting their pictures, is more important to them, than you and what you (thought you) have together. - Sick, but true. They have no respect for you, they are selfish and will always be.

- I had a "boyfriend", who promised not to be a pig on Facebook no more. So what did he do? He just used Instagram/Followgram instead, and he blocked me. - And he is so very stupid, that he didn't know that I would find out.

He is very insecure: When he buys some new clothing, he post it right away. It's like screaming: "Please comment, please tell me how great I look. Please tell me that I'm ok, I need it"...?!

He lied about Facebook and everything else, and I know that he was still flirting and writing with girls he had never even met.

These types of looserguys forget, that what they do online, is reality as much as everything else they do. And they forget how THEY would feel like, if you did the same thing to them.

- Writing something to another person on Facebook or Instagram, is like walking up to that person in the street, telling them the same thing that you do online.

Sometimes, these insecure guys think, that what you have to let go off when you are in a relationship, is more important than what you get back, when you are in a relationship.

- And when they finally find out how wrong they were - it's too late.... - And then: what do you really loose, compared to what THEY are saying goodbye to?!

Remember: You deserve something better, and remember that not all guys are like this...!!
diane - October 22nd, 2013 at 11:14 PM
My boyfriend does the same thing. When we first started out relationship I let him know that I didn't like it and he said he would stop. What he did instead was to set his settings so thati couldn't see which pictures he like on Facebook (at the time I didn't even have an instagram). Couple weeks later we were sitting on the couch, him on his phone and I looked over to see him on instagram looking at half naked girls. I confronted him and he said sorry and that he'd stop once again. Couple more weeks went by and I went through his phone and whay do you know still following half naked girls. He didn't even know these girls. He constantly tells me I'm just insecure that its no big deal. We have been together a year now and we have a daughter. My body does not look like it was before hell even before I was pregnant there was no way I could compete with those girls. To this day he still looks at those pictures. Its a constant problem in our relationship.
Bianca - December 3rd, 2013 at 12:08 PM
I don't mind my boyfriend liking other girls pictures on Instagram , half the time Im like ouhh that girl looks good, but other times I question if his finger mistakenly liked a photo. His taste in women frightens me sometimes and makes me feel insecure like do I look like that :/ I HOPE I DONT. I know I sound like a horrible person for saying that but I mean if thats what he likes I feel like I should leave him to it, and end things .
ladybug - February 8th, 2014 at 10:31 AM
My boyfriend and I live together I recently made him an instagram this year, at first I had no problem with it, I was ok with him adding his h.s chick friends and his old friends, but when he added his ex g.f I asked him to delete her because I felt disrespected , he told me I love you blah blah blah a week passes by and we get into an arguement about it, I text him i thought you where deleting your ex , he didn't reply, (keep in mind his ex has twins & married) and we are both in are early 20s so till this day they both have each other as a friend, what should I do ladies any advice?
Em - February 9th, 2014 at 5:51 PM
Well I think as long as they aren't talking or anything it's no big deal. If he's not liking her pictures or looking at her profile it shouldn't matter.
Kiera - March 4th, 2014 at 4:51 PM
It doesn't matter if your insecure or secure in your relationship no man should disrespect their woman by doing that. I don't care if he's friends with that girl, you are his woman and you should be treated with respect and if that's a problem for him then oh well... See you later dirtbag.
Niqua - March 14th, 2014 at 4:10 PM
Same problem with me... I confronted my man he hit me with the "your insecure" bullcrap so I left him... If he'll like or comment under any other attractive girls photo... Imagine what's going on in them dm's...
Jane - April 20th, 2014 at 12:52 PM
Can someone answer me please. My boyfriend never posted a pic of me on his Instagram not replies to my comments on his account. We fought recently bc I was like why is Instagram such a big deal to u that u can't just post a pic of us and show people he's not single. We've been together over a year too. And he got offended saying that i made him sound like some loser who only cared about Instagram. But in the end he said he would post a pic of us. He's posted many after saying that but none of it is me. I get so frustrated like he can't do me this one favor like he has to look so cool on it. I want to bring it up again but I don't know how. It's really hurting me
Lynne - May 24th, 2014 at 2:40 AM
I been in a two year relationship nd my boyfriend will refuse to add me or put me on his instgram, he says its for a good reason which i think is complete bullshit, we argue almost every other day about it....i shouldnt have to argue with someone who claims they love me to show me off . I found him liking girls pics and commenting. I told him how it made me feel a billion times, it has got to the point where i iust broke up with him over it and he still believes he is right. Why is he making this such a big deal? I dont understand.
Marissa - July 2nd, 2014 at 5:39 PM
I had to find out from my friend that my boyfriend has an instagram and how he's acting like he's single. When girls had commented on a lot of his pictures about how he looks and stuff, he says "thank you (; " and "I'm trying my best to look good (;". He never once mentioned that he's in a relationship with me or anything. We've been together for over a year now, and I know I'm probably making a big deal and all, but it's still not right. When I told him about it he blocked his profile and just hid it. Then we had a big argument over it. He told me he got rid of it, but I kind of doubt him on it..
Chrissy - August 2nd, 2014 at 6:11 AM
Omg my partner is the same haha. He started following blak strippers. Bearing in mind he don't like black women so he says yet he adds mainly colourd women and talks to then on sights behind my back. He still hasn't deleted them yet after I had a break down and cried in his arms. Men just don't think and feel how we do. I'm going to post loads of selfies now see how he likes me getting attention maybe he will do as I say then haha
Julia - August 6th, 2014 at 6:43 PM
My boyfriend is literally addicted to the app. He wakes up, goes on instagram. Gets home from work/football, goes on instagram. Even when we're together, he goes on instagram. He only likes mainly girls photos. I've never caught him flirting, but he's put winky faces with a random girl and asked for her number. I confronted him about it, he got mad at me. He has absolutely no patience whatsoever, so its really hard to communicate with him about this situation without him getting mad at me and telling me I'm making a big deal over nothing. All in all, I am a very insecure person. I know some people have it worse, but he doesn't realize how disrespectful it is to spend every day just looking at what some random girl is doing, especially when you have a girlfriend.
Nicole - August 15th, 2014 at 3:32 PM
I have a similar situation, but with facebook. Theres a page on there called Sexy Mamacitas (shows girls butt, boobs, sexy poses). My boyfriend had been looking at all the pictures on there multiple times a day for a little over a month until I found out. After that he gave me his word that he wouldn't look at it anymore. And I trust him...he really is a man of his word. But my problem is...Should I have been so upset about it? Its been over four months and it still hurts me that he was doing that. Even more so since hes always told me that he doesn't look at stuff like that. Am I wrong for letting it bother me so much? Should I just be happy that atleast it wasn't naked pictures or porn. Just really looking for other options on this to maybe help me finally get over the situation.
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Taylor - August 26th, 2014 at 9:29 AM
I am having a problem close to the first original post up there...%uD83D%uDC46 my boyfriend and I both have a Instagram a Facebook and a snapchat and that's okay with me as long as we both can go through whatever we want whenever we feel free to do so "from the begining we agreed to that and that's the way we both wanted it and it should honestly be that way." I mean if you have nothing to hide then it should always be open to your significant other.. (Keep in mind I realize in a relationship you need privacy, it's not like I'm on there constantly checking for every comment he makes to his friends or anything like that and bitching about it. Or if a girl messages him or comments I don't bitch it's rare and it's not his fault just like I have guys constantly trying to hit me up too, but I don't bother to reply..) & I've never had problems with any of these sights before.. If any girl snap chatted him besides the few that I'm okay with him snap chattin he would always wait till I got with him and opened them & showed me or replayed it for me and he never said anything back to them, same with Facebook if a girl messaged him he'd mention it to me and I would see that he wouldn't reply to them. Well okay he's sounding perfect right? So what's the problem, and why am I bitching and actually commenting on this site.... ???Well we both rarely get on our facebooks but we are both always on our igs and it didn't bother me that he was constantly on it while he's at work cause he works third and I fall asleep mostly when he's at work for only a couple of hours so yeah he can do what he wants Idc he has never messaged any girl on any social media or even liked a dirty picture of a girl unless their is a nice looking quad or truck is in it and me too I like them pictures also, So I'm not worried about those pictures.. It's just lately I seen who he was following on ig and well I didn't like it. It was only a couple of pages (some country cuties page, some boob page and some yummy chicks page some yoga pants page) well i was on his iPod and ik I shouldn't have but I unfollowed them because they were from a while back before we started dateing so to me I looked at it like "okay he was single and liked to look at stuff like that well okay." I figured if I said something to him he would unfollow them anyways that's why I did it.. So Whatever I didn't say anything to him about it well untill I looked at who he was following again and it was even more pages like that.. I confronted him about it this time because it upset me.. (We don't have sex a lot like we used to and that bothers me, I guess because we've been together for 7 months it's kinda cooled off but it bothers me because I feel like he likes these ig girls more than me) the way he works during the week we hardly see eachother so we spend the weekends together untill Monday and Wednesdays I come over and try to spend a little time together before he goes to work... And well ik he looks at porn he's a guy but that really bothers me too.. (I honestly think in a relationship you get real sex why do u need to jack off to nasty sluts anyways?) but I've tried to get over it an realize that's the way guys are but it still hurts) anyways it makes me feel unwanted because I am willing to give myself to him anytime anywhere anyway Idc when I'm dating someone I want to be willing to do it all whatever they want.. I feel like he does it when he's horny during the week so by the weekend it's like he doesn't want it as much when we're together.. I know that he's not cheating and I love him to death but I just wish he didn't wanna follow those girls and I wish I knew a way to get him to stop honestly... But since the ig thing isn't the only problem I had to mention that and that's probably why it bothers me so much, because I feel like that's what he wants is these girls and not me. Anyways I said something to him. This time an he said "yeah those are from a long time ago and I noticed they weren't coming up anymore so that's why I followed more pages like that" & he got mad cause I unfollowed them and I can understand that but I was furious because he was mad and it was these slutty ass pages an I'm not comfortable with him following them... He also said it's his shit and he can follow whatever he wants too and we just got into it and it got worse so now I'm like obsessed with going on there n looking to see what he follows.. Well I had an honest talk with him about it one night and he said he wouldn't follow anymore he would just keep following the ones that are on there.. Well, we got into it and actually broke up for a day. Later I was on his Instagram after we were together again and I seen where he started following some of those pages again.. I figured cause he was pissed off at me "and we were broken up" but actually when I asked him again he said that he never promised me that he wouldn't follow those pages anymore... Well this just pisses me off. He's saying he never said he would stop followin them cause it's his page and he can do what he wants well, I mean what am I supposed to do? I'm just hurt because he basically went back on something he said to me and I hate a liar... I forgive easily but this is something I want to stop honestly.. Everyone can see what he follows and I don't like tht either.. I love him to death but when we got together I did not know he was like this and like wanted to look at stuff like that all the time but honestly It never really bothered me with my other boyfriends because we had sex every chance we got.. But with him it's like we hardly have sex anymore so I'm just worried because to me it seems like he started following a lot of these pages when we had stopped having sex so much and if that's true it bothers me because am I not enough? Makes me insecure. I've asked him and he just says they look good and he just likes to look at them... But he doesn't realize it hurts me.
BOY - September 28th, 2014 at 12:15 AM
You all are insecure fuckers.
Bruce - October 31st, 2014 at 4:51 AM
Them blocking you is the biggest red flag warning something's wrong. If you have to hide something, chances are it's wrong. Ladies, be aware that this happens to guys as well. Yup, yours truly... I was in a relationship with a girl. Seemed to be going good then at some point she opens a new IG acc and closes her old one. She claimed she was hacked... I believed it, didn't give it much thought. As time went on, the 'new' IG acc seemed dormant, with her only postings being far between. Then she closes that account and she says she's bored with the whole social media thing. I kept seeing traces of the old account though. Turns out she had blocked me. I ask her what gives and she says same as before she was hacked and closed it. Bullcrap. That in conjunction with other stuff led me to believe we were on different levels relationship-wise, and if she'd lie about something as simple as an IG acc, ehhh... I decided to end it. I gave her a piece of my mind and blocked her from all my stuff and said buh-bye. Never looked back. I admit there are still feelings for her, but I know I'm better off.

The truth is it takes two to tango. Both sides need to show the same amount of love and respect, and when both sides do, trust flows gracefully. Those saying that if you're insecure you're lame and childish, truth is, THEY are. They haven't grown mature enough to have the respect required to be in a meaningful relationship. They're players, is what they are. Love, from either side looks the same... if you love the person, you'd do ANYTHING for them. If they love you, they'd do the same... and if they don't, then they don't love you, at least not the same level you love them.

It's our right to feel insecure, because THEY put it there. Each and every one of us should recieve the respect and affection we give. If it's not there, then maybe we should stop wasting our time, energy and emotions on people who don't deserve it. We should get our focus away from relationships, and focus on ourselves, have fun with friends or focus on our careers and whatnot. At some point we'll come across someone who feels about us the same way we feel about them. We have to make peace though, that we may never find it and be comfortable with that, because there is a saying: 'Something seeked, is never found'.

My 2 cents. Luck to us all.
grossed out - December 28th, 2014 at 3:18 AM
My ex boyfriend did/does this too. Likes LOTS of photos of women. I know who his female friends are and he talks to them differently than he talks to women he doesn't know and is being flirty. But not too flirty so he isn't obvious. But what he doesn't get is that when a guy is liking all over a woman's (or multiple women) profile picture and making comments about her looks, he is OBJECTIFYING HER. I think it is okay to a degree to look at photos of people we find attractive, online. It is going to be hard to avoid. What I don't think is okay is to "like" or comment on these photos. I don't want to see who they are lusting after, personally. It is reality that they will be lusting... For me personally, I don't care if there are other attractions. It's when it starts to get personal that it bothers me. "like" and "comments" and "favorites" start to make it personal. An attempted connection. What if the woman in the photo responds to the guy's comment or like or what ever and then they start talking all the time? Then they have a potential situation of emotional cheating. Why risk that? Why not just keep it fun and in the fantasy world and not destroy the relationship they are in. If their relationship needs a boost, then give it a boost by taking some of that sexual energy for the internet women and put it into the attraction felt for the current girlfriend! Dudes, you don't need to go liking all over the women you find sexy or cute or attractive. It doesn't look very good. It makes you look like the kind of guy who lives in fantasy land. the kind that can't be trusted to be faithful. the kind that no woman ever wants to take a risk with because she sees him looking elsewhere all the time. you may as well be leaving jizz stains all over the internet. GROSS. I get it, women are hot! they totally are! i don't even mind knowing which women my BF finds hot. but i would rather he told me privately, than let the entire world know too. these are people not objects to consume. there is a difference between harmless flirting with FRIENDS and flirting with women you have never met but clearly wouldn't mind meeting!
Ryann - January 20th, 2015 at 8:47 PM
Its extremely hurtful and disrespectful. Its betraying the one you call your love. Its not ok. There are no excuses. Was instagram and facebook worth losing me over all 700 women you claim to know? I guess I dont give you what they do. I guess Im not worth what they are to you. You gave me up for these women. I hope they are worth it. I guess they are because you still add randome women daily. Thats why we arent together after 3 years. Its because of trust and hurt and being betrayed by the one person who mattered the most. The one person I should have been able to trust. You got what you wanted. I got a lonely crushed heart

Bob - January 28th, 2015 at 11:33 PM
Ok flip the question what if your gf constantly posts selfies and you have to watch every guy in the world make comments is she not the least bit wrong?
shinobii - February 15th, 2015 at 10:30 AM
If she looks like coco austin then yeah shes wrong and if she looks like coco Austin. Your blessed man lol. But seriously if shes covered dont worry eapecially if you know them. Same for her. It goes both ways
Dazed and confused - February 5th, 2015 at 12:37 AM
I need advice... My girl recently got upset at me because of Instagram I was tagged by a coworker (female) in a picture that said "me try to figure out why my girlsad at me" she asked who she was I explained and she didn't like it then when I explain why she tagged me (she had seen me arguing with my girl about a month ago on the phone) and she was fighting with her best friend in the kitchen at work on the phone I said aren't girls hard to understand she then went and tagged me that day.... Now she is threatening to leave me and doesn't want to speak to me... Am I really in the wrong? Please any and all advice is welcomed...
Dazed and confused - February 5th, 2015 at 1:12 AM
"Me trying to figure out why my girls mad at me" *** and it's a picture of a guy looking a a huge mathematical equation. Sorry thought it might need some clarification
ShinodaShinobii - February 15th, 2015 at 10:14 AM
If it bothers either person male or female ita wrong. Look at your girls page and tell me your not going to be threatened by the guy in a thong that has rock hard abbs when you look like a normal guy with a gut. And the amount of it she likes and comments even if there your friends or famouse it goes both ways. Point is if it bothers dont do it if you love him or her dont do it. Is it really worth the wrisk of a good relationship? No. I'm so sick and gired of everyone blaming fb or ig for there shit. They didnt press thw like or follow button. They disnt make you rype the words. You did. Its called self control ladies and gents. Stop comparing your relationships to one another its all different.
Joycec87 - March 15th, 2015 at 7:02 PM
I learned from elderly I work with that, if we, girls, don't want any kind of problem like that, we should not be peeking at their own stuffs. I know it's very disrespectful but it's better to see them liking other girls' boobs and asses rather than guys' balls and bananas. I was enlightened that day. I was also advised to just take one day at a time and then just be happy, relax and enjoy the ride. If we are meant to be with whoever we are dating right now, we will be. If not, we have just given a favor and a chance to find the right guy for us.
kimberly - October 1st, 2015 at 12:36 AM
Ok so im basically going through the same right now. Ive been with my bf for 10 months and honestly i just want advice and a big help! Because im to the point where im just getting tired and done with this. Well i have a very low self asteem and i say that because the two months that me and my bf started going out he would look at every girls ass in front of me and next to me he would say inappropriate stuff out loud. And well this is where after comes all the fighting the feeling worthless and just not likeing myself. He did start changing but he fucked up my emotions really bad. And now thats why i hate ig because i feel like he sees girl or thinks about them when he likes girls pictures that show to much :( sometimes i really wanna let go and just be happy. I ask god for that all the time to just be happy because im so tired of crying. And tonight i was fighting with him but i asked him a simple question and i said if you love me you would do anything for me right ? And he responded by saying yeah but not for something stupid. And i said i would never choose social media or ig over you and i told him i would delete because honestly i dont need that in my life my life is him and hes my future ......and he basically picked ig . he said he wouldnt take it down even tho i told him it would make things better and it would only be for awhile until we can get out place. And just hurry to settle down but it seems like internet or ig is more important. But of course im here laying down and crying like im stupid. And i really dont want him to be with anyone eles %uD83D%uDE1E but at the same time im getting tired .... Help please
Jazz - October 5th, 2015 at 2:03 AM

I can surely relate and have some very good advise for you ladies. A man that is seriously committed to you will want to feel connected to YOU in every single way. Through FB, IG whatever platform he's on . He will not go searching for random chicks online but search for YOU . Hoping to learn more about you . What school you went to , hobbies anything simple . A man with a sneaky motive , flirtatious , player etc will connect to many random chicks on FB. They will like his pics thinking they've " claimed him " online and that's " theirs " so to speak. The guy will commeback and comment on many girls pics too and try HIDING YOU the supposed LOVE of their LIFE ! Ladies trust me. I've been there played for months almost a year ! DUMP HIM IMMEDIATELY ! Guys a player ! Maybe he doesn't do it intentionally or has been dumped cheated on the past uses SM networks as a means of escape and work up many girls keeping his LINE UP open in case 3-5 dump him ! He's been there and is most likely not SECURE of himself or current situation. It's nothing personal. He wants BACK UP options or he just does it for FUN! He simply loves clowning around , playing with girls emotions ! Maybe it makes him feel more SECURE of himself everytime a new girl shows interest in him ! In reality players are highly insecure ! They don't love anyone but themselves ! It's fun and games for them ! They simply want to hold onto as many chicks possible hoping which one will stick around the longest ! They love no one. They don't understand what love is . Players only love you when they're playing. !! Get it straight !! Comments likes from girls or him commenting is NOT always innocent ! Same way he worked his charm on you he's working on many other girls DAY and NIGHT ! He's a LOOSE CANON ! He needs social media fun is easily tricked by the Internet sees it as a means of escape. pics of girls that's all fascinating for him. Don't waste time sending him ANY pics of yourself ! Post it on social media. Don't make him feel any special ! He's just a player ! Trust me. The time I wasted on this guy months thinking we had something special. Texting him pics etc. same very day he's working up chicks on the internet ! Busted chicks ! Low life's ! attention seekers ! Insecure girls working in radio shack ! Hell NO ! Guys a player does not value or respect you ! Needs social media fun and drama. DUMP HIM. Find a mature man that's confident enough to LOVE you the way you should. Don't make EXCUSES for his behavior !
! Players simply love the chasing game ! Once it's done with you they'll keep chasing hoping for more victims ! They text very little always make excuses lies deny their FB comments etc say they're just friends or my best friends sister ! Trust me. If he acts like he's got a guilty conscious not adding you on FB DUMP him immediately. I' had my doubts confronted him , totally denied it ! Then found proof from him he sent me pics of his past hookups when we broke up ! Same girls he was working up all night and day on social media. Trust me. Ladies. Move on. Guys a player. Dump the coward

. A man that loves you will honor protect you and be overly protective of you make YOU feel SPECIAL not some random chick on FB. I've been there have proof he's been cheating on me left and right for months. DUMP him. DUMP him. DUMP him. You are noones back up option. Sometimes love isn't everything ! Dump him don't make excuses for his immature sneaky deceitful ways. Move on. Find a man that doesn't get so easily distracted by chicks and is mature enough to have his own healthy agenda of things to do and ways to make YOU happy not lost and confused ! Dump the coward.
Jazz - October 6th, 2015 at 1:27 AM
Read my last comment above ^^

Okay so it starts out innocent . You confront him about the girls he follows on SM. He says they're just friends gets overly defensive . Then goes following them on FB as well leaving more thirsty comments. He doesn't add you but adds all types of random FB chicks , young teens in little boy shorts , low life's , attention seekers , you name it.

Just basic chicks that have nothing better to do with their time then take selfies non stop seeking attention from guys , to feed their insecurities. " what color should I do my hair ? " lame attention seeking nonsense need guys to validate their self worth. Highly insecure . And here he is grinding them non stop all day & night leaving thirsty comments liking their pics. He doesn't like random pics but girls he targets them selectively .

Yeah and what if they comment back like his pics ? Yeh he's gonna say don't show me your breasts I have a girl ? He's a single man. Always. Gives the impression he's a single dude.

Nope he's gonna send her a private message get her number text her meet her get nude pics out of her . There's your answer. Even the ugly girls that you thought were nothing just friends liking his pics yup even they get nude pics from him.

The very same day you're texting him pics that's not enough for him. He's thirsty as hell. He loves the attention. He's the common duck boy type loves hitting up random Facebook chicks. Where does he make the time for all of them ? He doesn't. He texts very little keeps them HOOKED, says I love you , baby baby you're perfect , I'm so lucky to have you , is very nice sweet in the very beginning , says the magic words , keeps them hooked.

Then he's set BEGS for nude pics , vids in the very beginning uptil you give in . What does he do with those pics sell them ? Idk. Don't give in. Common duck boy characteristic. He begs you for nude pics so that he can make you WEAK, seize total control of you , make you think he loves you , simply want control of you so you don't cheat on him while he plays you left and right.

He doesn't have a guilty conscious or is thinking about you when he's playing you for random girls he targets every night. Meanwhile you're making him feel special being loyal to him , giving him your time. He does very little. Simply gets you hooked on him. He's addicted to FB social media.

That is his real world. He's very sensitive of how others view him including his duck buddies on FB. He's more concerned about his image how others view him that what YOU think of him & what he's done to YOU.

He doesn't have a conscious. He's cold hearted self centered FB creep goes lurking in there preying on victims , little girls in boy shorts , anything he can feed into. He loves playing with girls minds and it makes him feel very secure being wanted , loved by MANY women. Talk about committed relationship ?

Okay. Starts out saying you're crazy it's just FB not real life ! Liking a pic ok but following random girls on FB as well as IG hiding you ? That's the bottom line. He's disrespectful , deceitful has a hidden agenda. Common FB creep. He simply loves being with a random chick every night. That's all. Trust me on this one. Comments , likes are not all innocent as you think. But wait there's more!

My suggestions work him up , don't give in till he earns your RESPECT , shows you he's worth your time and respect , acts accordingly online and offline , values you , respects you and simply knows how to act in stressful situations , doesn't go on the internet hoping to find another fuckbuddy but confides in you , has a healthy agenda , things to do with his time then getting distracted by FB sluts all day and night. No one needs that.

If he's not mature , trustworthy able to communicate openly and honestly with you dump him. Simply owning up to his mistakes. He never apologized for anything made me look like a bad guy while he was wasting my time for months. He seeks emotional comfort as well as random flings .

He will never be a one lady man if he's following many random girls in social media. Don't fall for him. He's overly charming sweet at first. Then feels he doesn't have to work for your love and affection anymore.

Thinks he's got you hooked till you pull a fast one , get him worked up over you and dump him like the coward he is. He never deserved your heart , love , time & affection. Trust me dump him good. Don't ever reconsider him.


There are millions of ppl just in one state alone. Don't fall head over heels over a guy that has no conscious whatsoever. No loyalty. Weak character. No integrity. Dump him for good. Make sure the next guy you talk to doesn't have a FB or rarely goes on it. Trust me. FB is his dating site nothing more. Signs next time check what he does on SM . If he's on it day & night RUN. Find a mature man with a healthy perspective on relationships.

They're cold hearted animals don't care about anyone but themselves. They see pics of girls and get distracted in this fantasy world. Got problems go on FB it will solve them for
him.

Find a mature business minded man not a sMall minded man that goes feeding on prey on the Internet but a mature confident one who focuses on his goals , builds healthy relationships , values you , respects you and only has EYES for you.

If you're sending him pics and very same day , he's gassing up teens in FB dump him immediately. There's no woman that can compare to yourself. Find a man that will find you to be the sexiest woman on earth. Except nothing less. Dump him.

Jazz - October 6th, 2015 at 4:19 AM
^^ after thoughtful consideration I've dumped him for good. He did not try once to apologize for his behavior or want to listen to me even care how he hurt me. He was too caught up in chasing his online weak thirsty insecure girls seeking Internet likes . He got caught up in that he lost touch of reality. Simply understanding my thoughts , reasoning or care to listen to me. But no - he is never wrong. I've learned by judging his online and offline behavior he is not the man for me. How he acts online is a reflection of himself and his character , loyalty , integrity. Simply has no morals. Period .

Best advise dump him when he's weak and at his ultimate low. Therefore he will bleed everyday remembering what he lost out on for good bc of his selfish , insecure , deceitful ways. Never take him back. The Internet is where his heart belongs to preying on girls hoping to find fulfillment in the wrong places. He will never truly understand you . He's too busy chasing an illusion. He never thought about you when he was working up his next chick on the Internet . While you're building intimacy and trust making him feel special he's chasing an illusion. A low life that has nothing better to do than take selfies , working up guys on the internet for likes begging for attention , while you are chasing your dreams , working hard , too busy and focused on your goals ! His loss. He deserves what he chases on the internet. Attention seeking sluts ! You are who you chase ! Find a mature man that simply is way too focused on himself than getting distracted by FB sluts. Values respects you tremendously to even glance at another chick.

Dump him. When he's down. Make sure he bleeds for life. Move on.
Jazz - October 6th, 2015 at 9:13 PM
It really depends on the person. When you're dealing with a fuckboy though it's never harmless social media fun. Look for the common signs early in advance.

%u2022 He asks for pics , nudes , vids way early in advance. BEGS you for them non stop. Texts you non stop till he gets them. He tells you he loves you very first day , gets you hooked , is very charming , sweet the first couple of days. Then as soon as he gets the pics & vids he thinks he's done his job, has you hooked on him . Now very minimal contact for months makes excuses, says all the great things you want to hear. Just wasting your time.

%u2022 You catch him following many other girls deep scrolling 140 weeks back liking their pics. Yeah okay. We surely understand what double tapping means , an indicator of flirting giving his next victim sensations , preparing for his next moves. Messaging her getting her number , and nude pics . Yup were not as stupid as we appear.

%u2022 you question him. He gets overly irate , makes you seem like you're crazy . Threatens to leave - right away. After saying I love you begging for nude pics ? Okay there. Guess love isn't that strong now is it ? Instead of simply owning up to his nonsense.

%u2022 then you fall for it for months. Thinking it's nothing serious to be worried away. Till months later you come across his Facebook profile and discover way more than you thought was possible. Leaving thirsty comments , liking random girls pics , underage girls , low lives he follows on his other SM networks, sluts , insecure attention seekers you name it. Common characteristic of a fuckboy chasing girls on FB. Now FB is more advanced , you can click his name on pics he liked or commented on and it will appear. Gosh more shocking stuff. Only if I knew about this feature in advance I wld have saved my time from day 1 on this FB creep. His comments were off the wall. For sure he's been hooked up with many many FB fuck buddies on here. They leave comments then unfollow. Next time check his online behavior simply go on. fB search pics he liked. That is a good indicator of his offline behavior.

%u2022 it's clearly an addiction. He seems to love to create a false perception of himself to his Facebook buddies. He's highly insecure hoping many girls will show interest in him. He's always single. He presents himself like a single dude. He's always thirsty and hungry for more. The only person he is playing is himself. He's not assertive , upfront , and honest , trustworthy lacking integrity , respect for himself as well. He doesn't respect women . Any girl that ends up with him I've done myself the favor by dumping him. He says you should t be looking at
My FB page. Well I sure better be know who I'm talking to if he's leaving thirsty comments on little girls pics underage teens. Might have a loose predator on my hands. Trust is lost. He just seemed to small minded anyway gets fascinated by pics of girls on FB. Clearly loves playing with girls minds. It's fun and games for the player. Another sign is they can me ADD and need to be involved with ADD attention seeking PPP like themselves . Taking pics feeling on likes. It's all common. They belong to each other. I've discovered were not a good match after all. He's too easily distracted by dumb idiots on FB , can't be in a meaningful relationship after everything I've done for him. Simply cold hearted and ADD.

Simply dump the FB player. You can't change him. He has issues from within and loves chases lil girls on the Internet. Dump him and find a mature man that's all about his business , goals . Work , has healthy meaningful relationships and is too busy finding ways to make you happy not his FB fuck buddies. Low life's from all walks of life. Dump him and find someone who's out there in the real world doing real things , not preying on his next meal on FB.

Jazz - October 7th, 2015 at 8:17 PM
The odd thing is that the girls he follows on social media fall in these categories.

%u2022 married women , girls with boyfriends , single girls with children , teens posing slutty or just innocently , slutty girls posing pics every five minutes , attention seeking low life's , sluts , loose chicks working dead end jobs , k Mart , radio shack , strippers , waitresses , cocktail servers , small minded girls that have no real goals , purpose in life just seeking attention off the internet.

just when I thought it was all harmless social media fun he's proved me wrong. He even targets married women , teens, girls with boyfriends hoping to give them the " attention " they need to steal them away from their boyfriends , and girls with children. He has no boundaries. None. Why just leave these damn women alone ? Why duck with a married woman or ladies with children ? That's just messed up. He has no boundaries. Just an online FB creep stalking girls preying on his next victim.

Trust me actions speak louder than words. There are many guys out there that have women and love the online attention , texting many many women at once and yes meeting them taking it to the next step. Spot early on his online behavior in advance. Don't fall for his nonsense. Move on. There are just some men not worth your time. They are Men that are addicted to Facebook. They seriously have issues from within.
Jazz - October 7th, 2015 at 9:20 PM
It's good to know he was targeting women with lanyards around their neck working dead end jobs. Land yards that's all he will ever get. Lol. I'm happy I have spotted on at least and hope my observation and actual experience can help other women stay away from these online creeps.
Twin flames - October 11th, 2015 at 4:51 AM
arguments over social media can be pointless and it's important to dig deep within why are you really arguing ? Does it make sense ? I've googled a few things in how I was feeling and I came across twin flames, seem to argue relentlessly over nothing and have a push pull effect can always sense each other. It all depends on you and your relationship ? guess it all depends on the person and what type of connection you have with the person .

"The arguments between twin flames, in this phase, don%u2019t really have any meaning. You%u2019ll argue at almost anything (Nothing of which, by the way, will matter once this phase is over).
These arguments actually have a very deep reason%u2026
This actually has the main purpose of clearing all the %u2018Karma%u2019 and negativity that we%u2019ve accumulated over the hundreds and thousands of incarnation.
The mind, however, doesn%u2019t really understand this divine purpose.
(And that%u2019s why we don%u2019t like this when it happens)
Your Twin flame, like a mirror, reflects all that you hold inside you.
This includes things which you might not even know are inside you."
Hate fucboys - October 18th, 2015 at 2:42 AM

Well it all depends when you're dealing with a fuckboy vs mature man. Then it's best to make your assumption on if it's worth the argument. It's hard to believe we deal with fuck boys as they are very manipulative and highly cunning.

A fuckboy .. Asshole boy who is into strictly sexual relationships; he will lead a girl on and let her down, then apologize only to ask for "pics" once the girl has welcomed him back into her trust. Boys like this will pretend to genuinely care about the girl but always fail to prove the supposed affection. He almost never makes plans because he has to hangout on his terms which could be the most whimsical of times, and if the girl rejects those plans because she has a legitimate reason for not being able to hang out, he will get pissed. However, if plans are made he will bail on them without a second thought. If a girl tries to stand up to this asshole he will most likely deny everything and turn it all around on the girl making it seem as though the conflict at stake is her fault and he has done nothing wrong and hates when girls bitch at him for "no reason." He will always come crawling back because he is a horny prick and can not withstand the dispossession of one of his baes, because he has more than one that's for sure. Texting such a boy will consist of the girl carrying the conversation and the guy responding with short answers 10 or more minutes after the girl's response, but when she asks why he takes so long to answer it will be because he is "busy" but he promises he likes her. Boys like this are egotistical assholes who can not be trusted and are hard to get rid of because they say all the right things to get the girl back.
Tiffany: "He found me on instagram and commented "hmu." He's hot, should I go for it?"
Stephanie: "No, he's such a fuckboy. Sleeps around and will screw you over."
Panda - September 24th, 2016 at 2:11 PM
Is he a wrestler
Sara - February 18th, 2016 at 8:53 PM
My boyfriend blocked me just today on Instagram and he asked me why I like his picture and why only his and I just him that I have friends and family who live in California who I follow and like their pictures since when they are busy with work or school we just talk over social media and I even follow all of my favorite movie stars and favorite musicians. Plus he had posted this beautiful two heart shaped necklace that he probably got for his mom or maybe for one his friends that's a girl since he has a lot of girls as his friends but I wouldn't know the answer but the caption said "got a gift for someone special" honestly that could mean his mom, one of the girls he is close with on base, or maybe even me but I don't know and I probably wouldn't want to ask since he might just shrug it off or not tell me at all.
P.S his in the Army so he also lives in a different state as each other so when we talk he is usually tired from the different timezone also.
Zori - March 21st, 2016 at 6:58 PM
My boyfriend posted a picture of a non celebrity female sexologist wearing really sexy lingerie to his Instagram. I'm very bothered by him actually posting this before he even posted anything at all of me. Not with my lingerie but period. I feel like he's putting her on a pedestal and just completely disregarding me. Am I overreacting? Should I be worried?
dea - March 27th, 2016 at 12:51 PM
This is a really dumb answer from Natalie, i would be ashamed if i tolerate this behaviour, even if i really like the guy. I mean, any woman that has a minimum self respect won't be happy with a guy that has this behaviour, making her feel she is not enough. He should have a respectfull behaviour. We all know guys are more sensitive to this content, and the internet is gong crazy about this, wiring peolple's brain in an addictive way. Both boys and girls are acting like they don't think anymore. Girls in need of attention create a virtual identity, post sexy and semi-nude photos and feel good about it, and they don't realise they're not "a big deal", to men, they are just one more nude pic, one more nude chic, eventually used to masturbation for all sort of men. They are chics with very low self esteem. Guys who feed them are, most of them, addicted to visual naked photos, most of them will develop an addition, and eventually they destroy their relationships because their brain keeps going so wired in image of nude chics that they lose the ability to appreciate reality, and their girlfriend, some become unable to have a good sexual performance.

I don't think you are overeating. I think you're right. A real woman don't cope with this masculin behaviour. If he continues; drop him as it will go worst

If you decide to keep him, make him understand, not fighting. Just do the same as he does: follow random hot guys in the internet, comment his best pictures, and ask your boyfriend if he thing the guys are hot. Then, if he doesn't like it, tell him to stop being insecure. ;)
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Bethany - September 2nd, 2016 at 6:02 AM
I've also had facebook, instagram issues with my boyfriend. He follows fitness models, he follows anything half naked, I'm actually an attractive woman, smart,funny, and have a badass career. None of the behavior bothered me until I found nasty messages back and forth. Hes dling this when hes drunk now I dont trust him. So I hacked all his shit and locked him out. I also spoke to his folks about his behavior. I'm the bread winner in this relationship and own the house. I told him if you are invested in us then don't be disrespectful to me or i will arrange a uhaul to pick up all your things and move it to your parents house and never look back. Neither one of us will have an instagram or facebook and if he lies to me again or I feel he is lying I will data dump his phone, his ipad, just to confirm my suspicion and throw him out without hesitation. So far we haven't had anymore problems and actually are communicating better. Its been 3 months.
Kaitlin - April 20th, 2017 at 3:37 PM
Yeah, men like to manipulate situations and proceed to insult not only the relationship, but themselves. This includes their dignity, their self-control, etc. They pretty much belittle themselves and your relationship to get a free pass on HAVING to like another girl's slut pose. And you know she's doing it for attention. Personally, it makes me doubt the relationship entirely because what are your intentions? Why are you trying to get her attention? She's not a celebrity. She can ACTUALLY be contacted. Why can't you just say it in your head and move on? The whole back and forth liking pics too is completely inappropriate. That's somehow communicating attraction towards one another. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS LADIES. It's disrespectful and it won't kill him not to do it. They know it doesn't make us feel good. Stop bending backwards for assholes. Social media SUCKS in relationships. And it only shows you men's true actions and intentions. KTHX.

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